s, when Angela first met Michael. Michael randomly sent her a message on social media, and since then, their relationship has been full of torment, turmoil, and manipulation tactics.

At first, viewers could see the love between the ion-filled couple. Michael shed tears when his visa was denied and Angela married him despite her ill mother being miles away. However, with each season's appearance, Happily Ever After's Angela antics grew worse. While she made it clear she was an older woman with a forceful personality that refused to obey any man, she also neglected to reveal her abusive behavior.

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Michael has endured cake being thrown in his face, shouted at for looking at other women at a strip club, and never-ending threats and verbal abuse. After her weight loss surgery coupled with other surgical alterations, Angela has hit a new level of self-confidence. Fans have grown worried for Michael after the previews revealed an angry Angela destroying his cars. Now, viewers theorize that Michael would be much better off as a single man.

Angela Deem Is Selfish

Split image of a Angela on the show the first time compared to now in 90 Day Fiancé

Over the years, Angela has proven to be incredibly selfish. Although she does gift Michael the occasional surprise, what he really craved was a family. Bearing more children didn't seem to be in the cards for 90 Day Fiancé's Angela, but Michael wanted to try IVF and use a surrogate. Instead, Angela chose to use the money on weight loss surgery and a breast reduction that Michael was against.

Angela Deem Is Too Flirty

90 Day Fiance star Angela Deem laughing with Doctor Michael Obeng

Angela doesn't attempt to hide her raging jealousy. Michael is aware of what Angela deems acceptable and what isn't. However, that doesn't stop her from engaging in the same acts that she would never accept from Michael. Angela wasn't afraid to it just how good looking her doctor was and now with previews suggesting she's interested in other men, viewers can't help but notice the double standards.

Angela Deem and Michael Ilesanmi Are Complete Opposites

Angela Deem and Michael Ilesanmi from 90 Day Fiancé talking outside

In many cases, opposites do attract, but that doesn't mean they're meant to be together forever. The brash American woman is not afraid to get in Michael's face. Meanwhile, 90 Day Fiancé's Michael is more laid-back in his approach and sympathetic to his partner's wants and needs. More often than not, it seems Michael is ready to move on in the relationship while Angela is still stuck in the past and acting petty to return the favor.

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Unfortunately, ups and downs are a natural part of relationships. What really matters is focusing on the future and how they work on progressing past the challenges. While it appears Michael is ready to heal the relationship with kindness and an open mind, Angela is stuck in her abrasive ways. In the end, it's only the beginning of the season, so viewers are eager to learn if the chaotic 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? couple will learn from their harsh past.