Ha, there is a story for the books. Matt has the sex appeal of a monk. First deep red flag would have been to have sex with a person who wears a hat in bed. For crying out loud, Matt has more hang-ups and complexes than a garden gnome. She expected way to much before she came to the US and he thought he did this momentous financial sacrifice is for her to enter the U.S. But then he "forgets" to put her children's names on the emigration papers. Right, oops? So when she throws every 4 letter words at him on a daily basis, his feelings are hurt and he finally figures out how to punish the little woman. He refuses to let her use his body (with or without hat) just for her to get some relieve of her body "aches" for lack of a different word. We must , he is a very sensitive person and can not make love to someone who dowgrates him. Yup, that is a marriage from hell and I'd be running or flying outta the like a bat out of hell. With hat of course!!!

At first I didn't like Sarper at all but I do think he came around and his family was very kind to her. I actually feel sorry for him since he came to the States. She is very bossy and whiney. He has to leave the house that is pretty small and crummy and spend the day wandering around until SHE says it's time to come home. Her family treats him like a criminal and so did her friends. Never did she even speak up for him. There must be something she likes about him or else he wouldn't have come to the States. She should have told him in detail what his new life was going to be like. Bet he would never have come here.She is just as selfish as he was in the beginning.