She should of changed her diet and worked out a lot !! She doesn't and didn't understand what trauma she was about to put her mind and body through !! You don't just go cutting onto your body for someone else or attention as someone else said.Those babies were too small to watch you go through all of that .. Were you breast feeding obviously you're more worried about how they look I've always watched you both . I pray 🥺 🙏 ♥ that you want be getting a divorce from all of it as well .!