Umm while I do agree with you on deku I want to remind y'all that Elizabeth is still technically his daughter and also extremely younger than him so I don't get why you're trying to justify his behavior with that he's doing to cope with the loss of his lover I want to remind you that he literally raised Elizabeth which that in its self is creepy

Also SA is not ok whatsoever whether it's with one person or a million people it's still not ok also it's still not ok even if the perpetrator is traumatized