I think we’re over examining The Golden Bachelorette's Joan too much, although that is also an unfortunate part of the entertainment element of watching the show. I think everybody has their own template for choosing someone. She’s old-fashioned, and she picked someone that she thought would be solid and safe and that really, really, really loved her and wanted her right away. In the old days, you picked the man who loved you, not chasing some guy like Jen Tran, who didn’t want her.