Nah people like Hermione didn't believe using another's wand would make any difference until she tried Bellatrixs in the 7th book

The problem is that us readers take ollivanders superstition as absolute truth.

Wizards within the story however don't give these things much thought, Nevil also used his father's wand but for different reasons.

Certain woods and cores are more unyielding and the relationship between the owner and the borrower also plays some part