I have never once bothered to to this website until I read this article. I have to provide a little background in order to justify what I'm going to say I'm an old school geek I'm in my forties I've been watching anime since Voltron, thundercats, Akira, and others.

I'm also a father who is a military veteran PTSD that's another reason I have to make some comments. I've raised my kids on anime and I have experienced many levels of life and trauma. Just because you don't agree with a protagonist mindset or you don't agree with how they react to pain and trauma and problems does not mean you are right. We'll start off with deku he goes through so much damage in the short amount of time and you are disregarding his self-doubt as unimportant even though he is literally a high schooler without a fully developed frontal cortex. The next one I really want to point out is Rudeus I think this one upset me the most on the list. You're looking at a guy who in his last moment of complete emptiness saves someone else and dies to be reborn in a new world. He is a deeply damaged and flawed person but he sees a new opportunity in this life he decides to actually live his life unlike previously. He decides to make the most out of his family and friends and abilities and experiences. He goes through so much loss and pain that is compounded by the trauma from his previous life that he didn't get to forget. The fact that you choose to focus on actions that he takes that are obviously for the sake of comedy and fan service that we all know exists in these isekai kind of speaks to the quality of you as a person. You ignore his personal struggles and growth if you've watched the series all the way through and you see him go through losing people whether it be friends or family all while trying to pretend everything is all right because he feels like he has to and you still decide that he's not "good enough" you are disregarding his growth and him as a person.