Jennifer Aydin ed the cast of Real Housewives of New Jersey in season 9 and since then, fans have seen her mansion, her marriage to Bill, and their five children. Jennifer's time on the show has stood out as she has had major fights with many of her co-stars and she isn't shy about voicing her thoughts.
While Jennifer hasn't been involved in the wildest and most epic fights on the series, she has still made an impact. There are many moments when fans love Jennifer and think that she's totally in the right, but there are just as many scenes when it's hard to her.
ed: When Margaret Insulted Her For Being A SAHM
Margaret wanted Teresa and Jackie to get along better, but she also made some harsh comments on the most recent season of RHONJ.
Margaret insulted Jennifer for being a stay-at-home mother and said of her husband Bill, "he's your meal ticket." She also said, "You're a concubine." It was shocking that the fight got this bad that Margaret said these words, and Jennifer was right to feel hurt. There is absolutely no reason to be ashamed of being a stay-at-home parent or a working parent. Friends should one another.
Didn't: When She Got Involved In Teresa And Jackie's Fight
After Teresa said she string of fights that Teresa has been involved in.
Jennifer kept getting involved in the fight, saying that her husband Bill filled her in on a conversation from when the guys were hanging out. She said Margaret's husband Joe said he heard the rumor, too. It wasn't Jennifer's place to keep talking about the rumor, and she could have easily stayed out of it, as Jackie and Teresa were upset enough.
ed: When Margaret Made Fun Of Her Drinking
At Teresa's pool party, Jennifer drank so much that she had to go home early. Margaret brought this up several times and called her a "sloppy drunk."
This wasn't nice, as Jennifer was having trouble with her family and she was suffering, and it felt like Margaret should have been more caring and understanding instead of bringing this up.
Didn't: When She Called Margaret "Sloppy" For Sharing A Part Of Her Past
Serious topics often come up on The Real Housewives, sometimes when the cast open up about what has been going on in their lives, whether currently or in the past.
Margaret explained that when she was young, her boss took advantage of her and said that he wanted to sleep with her. She said that she was uncomfortable and felt pressured. Jennifer said that Margaret was "sloppy" for doing this and talking about it. This was an incredibly harsh statement to make and it was clear that Margaret was really hurt. Jennifer was reacting to Margaret's insult that she was a "sloppy drunk" but it was the wrong thing to say.
ed: When Her Parents Struggled To Get Along
On the most recent season of RHONJ, fans have also seen Jennifer's family struggling, as her parents haven't been getting along with each other. Jennifer said that her dad moved in with her and her family, and when her dad went to Turkey to visit family (including his baby grandson), her mom refused to go.
This was a time when fans could Jennifer, as she is very family-oriented and it has been heartbreaking for her to watch her parents in this state. In one episode, Jennifer said that she wanted to let loose at Teresa's pool party because of the stress of this situation.
Didn't: When She Hated Being In Oklahoma
In season 9, the women went to Oklahoma, and Jennifer complained the entire time. She acted like it was beneath her and none of the accommodations were good enough for her.
She even brought it up again at the reunion and said that it was her first trip without her family and that it would have been better if it somewhere else: "I mean, I wasn't proud that it was Oklahoma. I would've liked to go somewhere else. Maybe Vegas or something." Fans couldn't Jennifer here, as she seemed pretty snobby.
ed: When She ed Her Brother
Jennifer shared that her brother had come out and that her mom had trouble accepting it. Jennifer explained, "You know, it's something that my mother has struggled with. This is the first time ever that any of us have pushed my mother to face it, like head-on, so I wasn't surprised at all." She mentioned her mom's "traditional Turkish values."
Watching Jennifer her brother Steven was moving and this proved that she is a caring, loving person.
Didn't: When She Threw A Plate At Melissa
When the cast of RHONJ went to the Hamptons, a fight about Jackie and Jennifer's money broke out, and Jennifer behaved badly.
When Melissa said that Jackie was intelligent because she saved money, Jennifer asked, "Are you saying my kids aren't gonna be successful in 30 years?" She then threw a plate in Melissa's direction. Melissa didn't deserve that treatment. She was just trying to be nice to Jackie and diffuse some of the tension.
ed: When She Talked To Her Daughter Gabriella About Bullying
In one episode, Jennifer shared that her daughter, Gabriella, was being bullied, and it was a heartbreaking moment as no one should have to endure that. It was especially hard because these were girls who Gabriella used to hang out with, but now they had excluded her.
The cast of the Real Housewives franchise have funny taglines and epic fights, but they're all good parents, and sometimes they share a storyline in which they are helping their kids through something important and difficult. Fans ed Jennifer in helping her daughter through this tough time.
Didn't: When She Insulted Margaret's Mom
Margaret and Jennifer haven't been very close friends this season and the same thing was true in season 9. They didn't see eye to eye, especially because of Margaret's "mail order brides" comment.
At the reunion, Jennifer stood behind her remark that Margaret's mom, Marge Sr., was "an adultress" and a "home-wrecker." This was a tough moment, and Margaret said that it's best to avoid insulting mothers and children, which is something that many can agree with.