Scotty Lewis is the most famous person in The Ultimatum: Marry Or Move On season 3 due to his controversial act that depicts his manipulative and controlling behavior, and with red flags flashing everywhere he turns, it would be best if Aria De'Westbrooks walked away from the relationship. Aria and Scotty dated for three years before ing The Ultimatum, Marry Or Move On. The couple was at a crossroads after Scotty, 30, issued an ultimatum while Aria was still struggling with the thought of a long-term commitment.

As The Ultimatum, Marry Or Move On season 3 comes to an end, Aria and Scotty's journey has been a standout storyline. There's always a The Ultimatum. In season 3, there were a couple of guys with major red flag vibes, including Nicholas "Nick" Tramontin, who stalked his partner throughout the experiment, but Scotty took the title. Despite issuing the ultimatum and stating that he was ready for marriage, Scotty showed he was not ready for a long-term commitment in more than one incident, proving he was not the right man for Aria.

Scotty Has Been Hostile

He Hardly Communicated Without Becoming Confrontational

In The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On season 3, Scotty chose Zaina Sesay as his trial partner. Scotty acknowledged that with Zaina, he felt seen and appreciated, adding that they got deep pretty quickly. After the couples swapped back to their original partners, Scotty opened up to Aria, narrating how incredible his trial marriage was. However, Scotty failed to mention how hostile he was at times towards Zaina, despite her efforts to handle the situation with kindness.

Every time he argued, The Ultimatum Marry Or Move On reality star appeared to focus on destroying Zaina emotionally. On one occasion, Scotty confronted Zaina about whether he'd ever talked negatively about JR to her. J.R. is Zaina's original partner, who was paired with Sandy Gallagher.

The confrontation came after Scotty had been ive-aggressive towards Zaina for a while. Although Zaina calmly told him that he hadn't directly said anything negative about JR to her, he went on to rant about the situation, acting like Zaina was running a smear campaign against him. Zaina tried to play it cool and eventually de-escalate the problem.

Scotty Has Been Manipulative With Zaina & Aria

He's Manipulative & A Gaslighter

Scotty projected his insecurities during his trial marriage with Zaina. At one point, he was insecure with J.R. and accused Zaina of taking her phone to the bathroom at 1.30 am to talk to him. Scotty still claimed Zaina told J.R. he'd called him a hall (via Ultimatum Netflix). The conversation escalated after Zania noted that he was obsessed with J.R. and, in his defense, Scotty accused Zaina of deflecting.

"Obsessed with J.R is crazy, you really couldn't come up with a better deflection?"

Scotty also claimed Zaina was a gaslighter during that argument instead of having a proper conversation about why he thought she was talking to J.R. at night. When Zaina expressed how bad he had made her feel after alleging she was responsible for influencing J.R. 's perception of him, Scotty said he wasn't interested in the drama, adding that she was "too old. " He advised Zaina to hang up the "drama jersey."

In another incident when Zaina wasn't interested in doing hot air balloon or cryotherapy, Scotty asked her what "32-year-old fun" looked like. Everything Scotty said to Zaina when he didn't agree with her was demeaning and downright rude, with the intention of killing her self-esteem. It was manipulation of some sort, hoping she would go along with his plans.

With Aria, Scotty used her trauma against her multiple times in The Ultimatum Marry Or Move On. In one incident, the 30-year-old stated that he was compared to men in Aria's life who let her down and that Aria was setting him up to fail. It seemed like Scotty hardly analyzed himself to see some of the traits he would improve on that would make their relationship not work.

Scotty Cares About How He’s Perceived

He Wanted To Present A Perfect Image

One could guess that Scotty cared too much about perception based on how he dressed and talked about his image. However, this became evident during the argument with Zaina over J.R. Zaina trying to convince The Ultimatum Marry Or Move On season 3 reality star that she had nothing to do with J.R. accusing Scotty of calling him a hall . The argument got so bad that Scotty said that she was presenting her ugly side by showing her true colors on TV.

"You are painting a real ugly picture of yourself with your true colors now."

Scotty looked like he was on a mission to assassinate Zaina's character and was willing to go to any extent to make her feel bad, which was emotionally exhausting to watch. It seemed like Scotty ed The Ultimatum: Marry Or Move On cast to make a name for himself, trying to act nice in all scenes. However, he couldn't maintain that good-guy character for too long. Scotty constantly blew up and was, on more than one occasion, defensive. When dealing with a tough situation, Scotty acted like he was always right without needing anyone else to challenge his thinking.

Scotty Is Insecure

He Can't Hide It

Scott said he got so much validation as a child that he couldn't deal with rejection. However, it appeared like Scotty didn't know healthy ways of dealing with rejection, evident by how he handled his trial marriage with Zaina and also dealt with his relationship with Aria. The Ultimatum Marry Or Move On star presented himself as misogynistic, toxic and an emotional ab. Perhaps the reason Scotty wanted to lock Aria down in marriage was to boost his ego. He probably knew many people wouldn't put up with his attitude as Aria did.

In The Ultimatum Marry Or Move On, viewers saw how tough it was to reason with Scotty during his trial marriage with Zaina. The couple were discussing a cryotherapy date when Zaina said she wouldn't enjoy the cold. Even though she was willing to research it and see if she would reconsider, Scotty dismissed the whole idea, saying he was over it. He later explained how he felt like Zaina was rejecting him by opposing his date ideas, even though that wasn't the case.

Some people dislike rejection, which may highlight their insecurities, since they can seek external validation at all times. Scotty cared about how people perceived him; therefore, with his worth tied to how others perceived him, he projected his insecurities onto Zaina and Aria. Perhaps rejection feels like a personal failure to this The Ultimatum: Marry Or Move On cast member and, in the process, shows how insecure he is of himself.

Are Scotty & Aria Still Together?

They Got Engaged

Scotty and Aria began their ultimatum journey with a couple of resolved issues coming from their busy lives and a lack of compromise from both parties. Aria expressed her hesitation about marriage was due to her upbringing, where she never had an example of what a healthy marriage looked like. In their trial marriages, Aria found a great connection with Caleb Storm, while Scotty clicked with Zaina and, at one point, described her as wife material.

However, there is a high likelihood that Scotty and Aria get engaged in The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On finale. Although they still follow each other on Instagram, they haven't given any clues about their relationship status. The viewers won't find out if the couple continues to strengthen their relationship until The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On season 3 reunion drops.

The Ultimatum: Marry Or Move On season 3 episodes 1-8 are available for streaming on Netflix. The finale drops on December 18.

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